Plz help! URGENT?

well usually if they gossip and talk about other people chances are they talk about you when your not there have you ever heard one of them talk about the other one when she isn't there thats a really good clue the will probably talk about you too my question is why does it have to be about group whats wrong with be friends with everybody and not being in a group period there is nothing wrong with having more then one best friend so put sometime aside to hang out with all of at different times if they don't get along